Compelling Reasons to Allow Your Child to Make Mistakes Gracefully #8

August 20th, 2008 by Christine Gulrajani

In this series, we are highlighting compelling reasons to allow your child to make mistakes gracefully. See Compelling Reason #1 for more information.
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Compelling Reason #8
Thoughts.
When our children make mistakes and it arouses emotions within us, we get to play with one of the most powerful tools in our parenting tool kit [...]

Compelling Reasons to Allow Your Child to Make Mistakes Gracefully #7

August 20th, 2008 by Christine Gulrajani

In this series, we are highlighting compelling reasons to allow your child to make mistakes gracefully. See Compelling Reason #1 for more information.
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Compelling Reason #7
Fear.
To elaborate on the idea of perfectionism, the roots clearly point to fear.
When parents resist allowing their children to make mistakes, a subtle message is heard. [...]

Compelling Reasons to Allow Your Child to Make Mistakes Gracefully #6

August 10th, 2008 by Christine Gulrajani

In this series, we are highlighting compelling reasons to allow your child to make mistakes gracefully. For more information see Compelling Reason #1
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Perfectionism.
The “perfect parent” syndrome engulfs the most unsuspecting and the most privy, from time to time. The desire to do things “right” is alive and it can [...]

Compelling Reasons to Allow Your Child to Make Mistakes Gracefully #5

August 6th, 2008 by Christine Gulrajani

In this series, we are looking at compelling reasons to allow your child to make mistakes gracefully. See Compelling Reason #1 for more details.
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Control
Parents have the best of intentions when they try to control their children’s behavior, but let’s say you really want your child to learn kindness to others. [...]

Compelling Reasons to Allow Your Child to Make Mistakes Gracefully #4

August 1st, 2008 by Christine Gulrajani

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In this series, we are highlighting the art of allowing our children to make mistakes gracefully. Please see Compelling Reason #1 to learn more.
Mirrors.
Through witnessing our children’s “mistakes” and our reaction to them, we can learn about deeply held beliefs that are not serving us anymore. Take a look at the things [...]

Compelling Reasons to Allow Your Child to Make Mistakes Gracefully #3

July 28th, 2008 by Christine Gulrajani

In this series, we are highlighting the art of allowing our children to make mistakes gracefully. Please see Compelling Reason #1 to learn more.
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Compelling Reason #3
Unconditional Love.
Mistakes create a great opportunity to demonstrate your unfailing love for your child in the face of anything that happens. Sometimes we give our children [...]

Compelling Reasons to Allow Your Child to Make Mistakes Gracefully #2

July 23rd, 2008 by Christine Gulrajani

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In this series, we are highlighting the opportunities available in making mistakes. Please visit Compelling Reason #1 to learn more.
Compelling Reason #2
Self-Preservation.
You could miss the opportunity to see how amazingly resilient and self protective your children really are. Think about it.
We sometimes protect our children to the point of [...]

Compelling Reasons to Allow Your Child to Make Mistakes Gracefully #1

July 14th, 2008 by Christine Gulrajani

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Parents can often find themselves feeling indecision and hesitancy in how to act in a certain situation. To bring one’s self to a point of clarity, it may be helpful to trace some feelings back to how mistakes were handled in the family of origin.
One way to create the transformations we want [...]

Outside Pressures and the Acrobat

June 30th, 2008 by Amy Bradley

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Part of the transformational parenting journey from overwhelm to harmony includes the valuable tool of transitioning one’s perspective. One way to do this is observe our children and make questionable or undesirable behaviors into strengths.
Some examples of this might be…

the toddler who climbs on everything becomes an adventurous, graceful child
the [...]

Let Your Child Lead the Way

June 28th, 2008 by Amy Bradley

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To some fun and not-so-serious play!
It is very easy to get caught up in the roles we take on as parents: housekeeper, cook (or shall I say chef?), listener, referee, problem solver, teacher, provider… the list is really endless.
There is another list, one that our children can lead us to, [...]

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