Frequently Asked Questions
What is Transformational About Parenting?
The experience of parenting in itself is transformational. Change and growth is a part of the process.
Literally, it begins with the amazing transformation that occurs when sperm and ova meet, join then divide, and ultimately create the beginning of a little human being. As this happens within the mother, her partner and she both witness with great awe the power of transformation. (Okay, maybe it’s not always this poignant and beautiful, but the potential exists…)
To take this a step further, parents come to the task of caring for little ones with the parenting received not only from their own parents or other care givers while growing up, but also from friends, their parents, teachers, society, and their whole combination of life experiences. With that, parents have a base of good and bad, light and dark with which to begin the “transformational” parenting journey.
It is commonly accepted that struggles will be part of the parenting experience. Many parents look back to the time they were kids and remember themselves, or others, having a hard time with their parents and end up expecting some variation of the same when they have assumed the role of parent. Even in families where struggles between parent and child seem minimal, the realization of parent and family life may present unwelcome challenges. These challenges can lead to feelings of insecurity, guilt, overwhelm, and a lack of complete harmony in parenting which can affect many areas of life.
As parents embark upon the experience of a lifetime, becoming a parent, many realize they want more from parenting and the relationship with their children. They (possibly You) want to literally transform the parenting experience into one of harmony.
Why is coaching with Transformational Parenting worth considering?
You get one life (in this body at least). The parent-child relationship is the most unique human combination on the planet and you and your child deserve to love it. All of it.
Quite simply, Transformational Parenting exists so Christine and I can help you transform any of the negativity into harmony! We want parents everywhere to be free of parenting stress and be in harmony with all of the gifts that parenting has to offer. The thought of more happy, relaxed parents walking this planet brings a grin to our faces every time we think of it! The life transforming results experienced by the parents we work with encourages us in our mission to transform the world, one parent at a time. Of course, willing and committed parents are the most important part of the equation. We know you can have what you want: a harmonious parenting experience, one which blends acceptance and appreciation, joy and enthusiasm.
Christine and I know because we are parents, just like you. We have felt the stressful negative feelings most parents feel from time to time, some so strongly that it can be almost debilitating. We knew there had to be another way. We wanted a different parenting experience so we both made a firm commitment to change our lives and become the parents we wanted to be.
Through years of researching and trying different parenting techniques, talking with many parents through our work as La Leche League Leaders, and ultimately following our hearts, we found that the role of parenthood can be completely free of stress, insecurity, guilt, or overwhelm and negativity in general. And it can be full of fun, joy, acceptance, growth, zest, and freedom beyond anything ever imagined!
Parents often try various techniques to guide their children, while many have a sense that an underlying tone or energy of their actions is greatly influencing their children. It is true that there are some parenting practices that contribute to the stress and there are some methods that can create harmony. The foundation for our work is attending to the whole parent, including this energy and the action that springs forth from it.
We created Transformational Parenting so you can experience harmonious parenting in the manner it really originates: through a peaceful place within. Christine and I offer private sessions, discussions, classes, workshops & seminars, as well as individualized practice and programs. Feel free to read our bios to get to know us!
Who can benefit from Transformational Parenting?
Any parent who wants to bring peace and joy to their parenting - on a continual basis!
The transformational parenting journey can look different to different parents and the value of our experience is one that focuses on meeting each parent where he or she is at, right now. It is our intention to connect with those who are ready to make a shift in their parenting, a shift to last a life time.
We invite you to take the first step and learn more about coaching with Transformational Parenting so you, too, can be free from anything standing between you and loving every moment of your parenting experience!
